I was in a disaster preparedness workshop last week.
One of the blocks of instruction during that workshop was how to deal with the media, and in that block we all had the "opportunity" to go on camera and do a mock interview.
So, during one of these "interviews by a "reporter"*, one of the questions was:
"So how do you feel about all those women and children killed and injured when that aircraft crashed into that day care center?"
Of course I was appropriately offended by that remark. But what caught me a bit by surprise was when I heard a voice from behind me murmur "aren't men people too?".
I turn around and look, and lo and behold, the utterer was a young black female from a local EMS unit.
Folks, I'll be the first to admit to getting discouraged because the view from the trenches tends to make us all think that we're not having any effect on the culture.
But I must say indicators like this suggest that the grip of the left-lib and socon narrative is starting to slip a bit. And that is cause for hope, for we men need to ally with women if we are to be victorious.
* The "reporter" was a veteran PIO for FEMA; I suspect that she has had more than her fair share of hostile interviews.

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Good Sign, I agree. As a BM, how young do you suppose she was roughly?
The optimism does my heart good EW, thanks.
Did the ‘reporter’ know for a fact that there were no men in the aircraft and daycare center?
I would have responded, “well it’s times like these that try men’s souls...and women and children too”
I personally advocate a policy of not talking to the media at all. They have an attitude that they are entitleed to access to your personal life and tragedy for their own career enhancement. And that career is the entertainment of others.
No government agency should employ anyone to speek to the press. On those few public emergencies when public cooperation is required, elected officials should go on mike and get teh job done.
I had a similar course in preparation for going to Bosnia. (that "war" was caused by Christian Amanpour to boost her ratings). Refusing to talk to the press IS an option.
The press should also be barred from disaster scenes. They are in the way and contributing nothing to the solution.
Steve,
Interesting you bring this up. Is it sexist for a woman to assume that those caring for children are automatically women? Or does the sexist label only apply when men do the assuming?
Hale,
You can try to ignore the media or shut them out, but you'll only make the situation worse.
One, they have just as much right to be there as anyone else.
Two, in the age of teeny tiny cameras and news outlets paying $50 for pictures, that pretty much guarantees everyone is a potential media source. Everyone becomes some sort of penny-ante Woodward and Bernstein.
Three, and this is the big one, if media isn't engaged with, they'll make up their own story and run that. Moreover, while people individually may be smart, in herds humans are dumb as posts. Engaging the media with facts spun one way or the other may help to calm people down where they would otherwise go all crazy. Furthermore, knowing how to engage the media is a way to not look like an ass on television.
I liken it to our war on terrorism. There is no front line, no clear demarcation between combatants and non-combatants. Same with the media. They will be out there, sticking cameras and mics in front of everyone. Including guys who just lost their partner when the burning building collapsed with them inside.
So having guys who know what to say and what to do when the video cam starts to record only helps things out in the long run.
"So how do you feel about all those women and children killed and injured when that aircraft crashed into that day care center?"
It's just the smartass in me, but I would have answered:
"How did I feel? I was pissed. I didn't have my barbecue sauce handy."
:)
All the best,
E. Steven Berkimer
www.falserapesociety.blogspot.com
Speaking as someone who has kids in day care, I am glad all - and I do mean ALL - the caregivers are women.
Protector, sorry I missed your comment until now.
She was mid twenties, I reckon.
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